Mother & Wife in ISLAM
Congratulations dear women for your happy comfortable life and lucky day. Congratulations with the new fair rights you won in ISLAM. Congratulations to the new pure heart you have got and the life you deserve.
Let's begin with the last words of Prophet Muhamed pbuh before he was gone where He said in his noble Hadith: "Treat women kindly"; the woman is created from a rib, and the most crooked thing in the rib is the above part; if you try to fix it, you will break it, and if you leave it, it is still crooked, "treat women kindly".
Prophet Muhamed also said in the Hadith: "The best of you, is the best to their women".
This is a Hadith in a way of a story. One day a man came to Prophet Muhamed and asked: "Who is the most deserving people in good companionship? He said:"Your Mom", the man asked:"Then who?", the prophet said:"Your Mom", the man asked:"Then who?", the prophet said:"Your Mom", the man asked:"Then who?", the prophet said:"Your Dad".
See How ISLAM respects the women so much and saves their rights and lifted them in the highest rank.
And here you are lucky noble mothers and wives, read well what the Noble Quran had said about you..
Chapter 4
(4/4): "And give the women [upon marriage] their [bridal] gifts graciously. But if they give up willingly to you
anything of it, then take it in satisfaction and ease".
(4/19): "O you who have believed, it is not lawful for you to inherit women by compulsion. And do not make
difficulties for them in order to take [back] part of what you gave them unless they commit a clear
immorality. And live with them in kindness. For if you dislike them - perhaps you dislike a thing and Allah
makes therein much good".
Chapter 2
(2/223): "Your wives are a place of sowing of seed for you, so come to your place of cultivation however you wish
and put forth [righteousness] for yourselves. And fear Allah and know that you will meet Him. And give
good tidings to the believers".
(2/228): "Divorced women remain in waiting for three periods, and it is not lawful for them to conceal what Allah
has created in their wombs if they believe in Allah and the Last Day. And their husbands have more right
to take them back in this [period] if they want reconciliation. And due to the wives is similar to what is
expected of them, according to what is reasonable. But the men have a degree over them [in
responsibility and authority]. And Allah is Exalted in Might and Wise".
(2/229): "Divorce is twice. Then, either keep [her] in an acceptable manner or release [her] with good treatment.
And it is not lawful for you to take anything of what you have given them unless both fear that they will
not be able to keep [within] the limits of Allah".
(2/233): "Mothers may breastfeed their children two complete years for whoever wishes to complete the nursing
[period]. Upon the father is the mothers' provision and their clothing according to what is acceptable. No
person is charged with more than his capacity. No mother should be harmed through her child, and no
father through his child. And upon the [father's] heir is [a duty] like that [of the father]. And if they both
desire weaning through mutual consent from both of them and consultation, there is no blame upon either
of them. And if you wish to have your children nursed by a substitute, there is no blame upon you as long
as you give payment according to what is acceptable. And fear Allah and know that Allah is Seeing of what
you do".
(2/236): "There is no blame upon you if you divorce women you have not touched nor specified for them an
obligation. But give them [a gift of] compensation - the wealthy according to his capability and the poor
according to his capability - a provision according to what is acceptable, a duty upon the doers of good".
(2/237): "And if you divorce them before you have touched them and you have already specified for them an
obligation, then [give] half of what you specified - unless they forego the right or the one in whose hand is
the marriage contract foregoes it. And to forego it is nearer to righteousness. And do not forget
graciousness between you. Indeed Allah , of whatever you do, is Seeing".
(2/241): "And for divorced women is a provision according to what is acceptable - a duty upon the righteous".
So what else to say?!!